Stop Thinking Your Way Into Transformation
Join the 12-Week Journey Where Men Stop Running From Their Hearts and Start Forging Them
It's time for a different way…
You've read the books. Listened to the podcasts. Been to the conferences. You know what you're supposed to do. You know how you're supposed to change.
But.. You’re Still Stuck
❌ Still hitting the same walls in relationships.
❌ Still triggered by the same things.
❌ Still carrying the same patterns your father carried—and his father before him.
Here's what no one told you: You can't think your way into transformation. You can't perform your way into peace. And you sure as hell can't numb your way to wholeness.
The Problem Every Man Faces
(But Few Admit)
Internally, what's really eating at you:
You feel like an imposter in your own life
You're terrified of being truly known because you're not sure what people would find
You toggle between rage and numbness with no middle ground
You're repeating patterns you swore you'd never repeat
You're leading others while feeling completely lost yourself
Externally, it can look like:
Your relationships are surface-level. Your marriage feels like roommates. Your kids don't really know you. You're successful on paper but empty inside
Philosophically, perhaps the deepest cut:
You know you were made for more. You can feel it. There's a better man inside you who's been buried under years of "shoulds" and "have-tos" and "be strong."
You weren't created to manage your life—you were designed to transform it…
…From the Inside Out
Why I Created
The Open Heart Journey
I call myself a Heartsmith because I've learned to take the hammer to my own heart—not to make it unbreakable, but to forge it into something that can break open instead of shut down, and heal stronger every time. Just like a blacksmith works with fire and steel to create tools that last generations, I work with men to forge the kind of character that doesn't just survive the storm—it gets stronger because of it.
I'm Jason. For years, I've been doing something most men think is impossible—I've been training men to forge their hearts like weapons instead of hiding them like weaknesses.
I don't fix broken men.
I forge strong ones.
I’ve been where you are: I spent decades trying to think my way into the man I wanted to be. Accumulating information. Attending conferences. Reading every book on masculine development I could find.
And I stayed stuck: Not because the information was wrong, but because I was trying to forge my heart with my head. I was trying to heal relational wounds with intellectual strategies. I was attempting to become authentic while performing my way to acceptance.
Then everything changed: That's when I discovered something that changed everything: relational learning—a way of training that doesn't just download information into your head, but rewires how you process everything. I learned that your heart carries intelligence your mind can't access. I found that real strength doesn't come from building walls—it comes from tearing them down strategically.
Now I've spent years training men through this transformation. Not as some guru who has it all figured out, but as a man who's walked through the fire first and can show you the way through yours.
The Open Heart Journey is 12 weeks of deep work—the kind that creates lasting change, not quick fixes. You'll move through each stage of transformation with time to practice, integrate, and actually become the man you're forging, supported by weekly live coaching and a brotherhood of men on the same path.
Path to Transformation
Stop the Cycle
(weeks 1-4)
Break the Pattern Stop reacting from old wounds and start responding from strength. Learn why you get triggered by the same things over and over—and how to rewire those responses. Set up your FO2 partnership to practice emotional mastery daily.
Master Your Inner World
(weeks 5-9)
Transform rage into power, numbness into feeling, and fear into fuel. Meet the parts of yourself you've been avoiding and forge them into weapons of strength. This is where you reclaim your power.
Lead From Strength
(weeks 10-12)
Master the skills that make you magnetic in relationships—with your wife, kids, and team. Cross the threshold as a man who creates safety, commands respect, and leads by example.
What the guys are saying about me…
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Pastor
"I witnessed Jason facilitate miraculous growth and transformation with the men in our church. He has an art of helping the masculine soul find peace, draw closer to the Lord, and gain a greater understanding of God's loving and compassionate heart."
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Charge Nurse
"'Surfing Emotions'—a concept Jason introduced me to when I first met him. At first it enraged me, mostly because I thought it an impossible thing. To 'ride' your emotions instead of being controlled by them—preposterous. Then all of the sudden, after working with Jason for some time, it hit me. I was learning to surf my emotions. I was naming them, interacting with them and working through them. Jason opened up a world to me that I thought was fantasy. He taught me a way of life that was empowering, a new dynamic in my relationship to Christ and helped lift me out of darkness and fear."
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Executive Director of LK10, Author
"Jason Twombly is a spiritual heart surgeon. He has a unique ability to connect with God to see the heart through Immanuel's eyes. But he doesn't stop there, he courageously blazes the trail through the deepest of trauma and grief to joy, peace and wholeness. He is one of the most skillful heart healers I have ever met."
The Cost of Staying Stuck
If Nothing Changes:
Your marriage becomes a business partnership at best, a slow death at worst
Your kids learn to relate to you the way you related to your father—distant, surface-level, walking on eggshells
You reach retirement having built a successful life that never felt like your own
You become the angry old man or the checked-out ghost, passing down the same patterns to the next generation
You die with your song still inside you, having never risked becoming who you really are
When You Transform:
Your relationships become oxygen-rich instead of suffocating
Your kids see you as safe to be known by and learn emotional intelligence from a master
Your work becomes an expression of your authentic self rather than a performance
You break generational patterns and become the man your lineage has been waiting for
You live and die as yourself—fully known, fully alive, fully free
Stop running from your heart
Open Heart Journey Begins
January 5th, 2026
This isn't a course you take—it's a craft you learn. Over 12 weeks, you'll master the revolutionary tools of relational learning, forge daily brotherhood through FO2 partnerships, and cross the threshold as the man you were born to be.
Frequent Excuses I Hear
I don't have time for just another program…
Brother, let me be straight with you. This isn't another program, it's a new operating system. You spend 2.5 hours daily on social media but won't invest 30 minutes in forging your heart? The truth is, you don't have time to stay stuck. Every day you delay is another day your relationships suffer, your kids learn your patterns, and your potential stays buried.
I'm not really the emotional type…
Perfect, that's exactly why you need this. James (Realtor), Sam (Software Developer), or Dave (Carpenter) weren’t ready either. This isn't about crying in circles or getting touchy-feely. This is about becoming whole. Your emotions are carrying intelligence you need to lead effectively. The strongest men I know aren't emotional—they're emotionally masterful.
My wife wouldn't understand…
Here's what I know: She'll notice the difference in you. When you learn to be present with your own heart, you become capable of real intimacy. Your relationships improve because you improve. She's been waiting for you to show up emotionally, not as a project to fix, but as a man who's done his own work.
I'm not religious/spiritual…
Look, this is practical heart-forging, not religious doctrine. The tools work whether you're a CEO, pastor, or skeptic. Character transformation transcends belief systems. I've worked with atheists, agnostics, and deeply religious men, the heart operates the same way regardless of your theology. This is about becoming functionally whole, not spiritually correct.
What if it doesn’t work for me…
Brother, I hear your doubt. It's valid. But here's my challenge: You've been trying to think your way into transformation for years, how's that working out? This is about practicing skills in brotherhood, not accumulating more information alone. The men who don't get results are the ones who don't show up consistently or try to do this work in isolation.
I can't afford it right now…
Friend, let's talk about what you can't afford. You can't afford another year of surface-level relationships. You can't afford your kids learning emotional patterns from a man who's never learned to master his own. You can't afford to retire having built a successful life that never felt like yours.
I've tried everything and nothing works…
I get it, man. You're tired of being disappointed. But here's what's different: You've been trying to think your way into transformation. You've been accumulating information instead of practicing skills. You've been working alone instead of in brotherhood. This isn't about trying harder at the same approach—this is about learning a completely different way.
I don't want to share personal stuff with other men…
Brother, your privacy fears are exactly what's keeping you isolated. The men who transform fastest are the ones willing to be known. But here's the thing, you control how deep you go and when. Nobody's forcing you to spill your darkest secrets on day one. What we're asking is that you show up authentically, not perfectly.
Your Forge Awaits
Here's what I know about men: We delay transformation until the cost of staying the same exceeds the cost of change.
How much has staying stuck already cost you?
Relationships that could have been deeper
Conversations that could have been real
Moments with your kids that you were physically present but emotionally absent
Years of managing your life instead of transforming it
The next cohort starts May 2026. After that, you're looking at another 3 months to see the fruits of this work.
Your heart is ready now.
People need you to become this man now.
We will explore all the details, find your why, and decide together if it’s a good fit for you at this time.
Start your transformation, join the journey
Join the Forge change your life
What You Get:
✅ 12 weeks of Heartsmith training (20+ hours of content)
✅ 12 weekly live group coaching calls with Jason
✅ FO2 Partnership setup and ongoing support
✅ Complete transformation toolkit: Body awareness, emotional intelligence, heart-level listening
✅ Private brotherhood community with 24/7 access
✅ Lifetime access to all materials
Need to chat with me in person before committing?
Join my upcoming Discovery Call where we will explore all the details, find your why, and decide together if it’s a good fit for you at this time.